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Our goal in providing Christian counseling is to help you meet the challenges of life in a way that will please and honor the Lord Jesus Christ and allow you to enjoy fully His love for you and His plans for your life.
Read this form carefully. You will be signing at the end to confirm you understand and agree to it. If you want or need separate counsel (legal or otherwise), you may obtain it prior to signing this document and participating in counseling.
COMMITMENT TO BIBLICAL COUNSELING
Reigning Grace Counseling Center is a ministry of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and part and part of our practice of religion. You have indicated that you are voluntarily seeking religious guidance (biblical counseling) from one or more Christians. The goal of biblical counseling is to help Christians become more and more like Jesus Christ in attitude, thought, and action. With that in mind, biblical counseling is the same as discipleship. As Christians, we are called to make disciples teaching them to observe all that Jesus commanded (Matthew 28:16-20).
Our goal in providing Christian, biblical counseling is to help you live your entire life in a God honoring\God pleasing way. This includes, but is not limited to, providing biblical counsel to assist you in meeting the challenges of your life; shedding sin that so easily entangles; learning to develop, cultivate and live in relationships that please God; giving thanks to God in all circumstances; living in a community of other believers; as you participate in your local church, and learning to rely on the Holy Spirit, for direction as you seek to know God through his Word (the Bible).
Although the biblical advice we give is intended to be practical, it is entirely your decision how to (and whether to) implement that advice. We want to help you love God and love others as we walk with you in this process.
During the course of the counseling relationship, we may counsel you from the Bible that certain conduct is sinful and must be stopped in order to please God, and we may counsel you in how Scripture directs Christians to put off that sin and, instead, to live a life characterized by self-control and godliness.
By signing below, you are specifically agreeing to such counsel and are affirmatively asking that we provide it. As stated above, we will counsel you from our deeply held, Christian religious beliefs, and this counseling is part of our practice of religion.
Biblical counseling is a disciple-making ministry. Reigning Grace Counseling Ministry is a 501(3c) non-profit ministry. The fee structure represents the basic costs of providing the ministry.
God calls our leaders to set an example for us “in speech, in life, in love, and in faith and purity” (1 Timothy 4:12). Therefore, we expect them to treat counselees with every respect and courtesy, and to avoid even the appearance of impropriety or impurity during counseling (Ephesians 5:3). We also expect counselees to promptly report any conduct that fails to meet this standard. (We practice the principle of men counseling men or women counseling women and we take extra measures of accountability when we have to make exceptions. Please be aware of this as it could affect your appointment scheduling.)
There are occasions when our counselors do not have sufficient time to meet with every person who asks for counseling. At such times we expect our counselor to refer them to another source of godly counsel.
Biblical Basis
I myself am convinced, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, complete in knowledge and competent to instruct one another (Romans 15:14).
All Christians struggle with sin and the effect it has on our lives and our relationships. Whenever believers are unable to overcome sinful attitudes or behaviors through personal efforts, God calls them to seek assistance from other believers, and especially from church leaders, who have the responsibility of providing pastoral counseling and oversight (see Romans 15:14; Galatians 6:1-2; 2 Timothy 4:1-2; Hebrews 13:17; James 5:16). Therefore, Reigning Grace Counseling Center encourages and enjoins people to seek counsel from and confess sins to each other first within the local church. Reigning Grace Counseling Center does not replace the local church but exists to assist the local church in the process of biblical counseling and discipleship.
We believe the Bible provides thorough guidance and instruction for faith and life (2 Timothy 3:16-17). Therefore, our counseling is based on scriptural principles rather than those of secular psychology or psychiatry. Unless they specifically state otherwise, none of those who counsel in this church are trained or licensed as psychotherapists or mental health professionals, nor should they be expected to follow the methods of such specialists.
If you are unwilling to use the Bible as the final authority in counseling or unwilling to do the growth projects assigned, you should not proceed with this counseling. However, we do want to help, and we pray that you decide to look to God’s Word for guidance as we follow the loving example of Jesus Christ. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, we believe your life can be transformed.
PROFESSIONAL ADVICE
In the process of Biblical counseling, there are often times when there is a need for significant advice with regard to legal, medical, financial, or other technical areas. In those cases, you will be encouraged to seek independent professional counsel because we do not provide it; although we advise you to handle all matters in a Christlike and ethical way. Our pastoral and lay counselors will be happy to cooperate with such advisors and help you to consider their counsel in light of relevant scriptural principles.
Further, we are not responsible for nor shall we be liable for any physical, mental or medical condition of any counselee, whether or not such condition is affected in any way by the counseling process or counsel provided.
No professional-client or fiduciary is created between the counselee and counselor. The parties recognize that the counselor may have training in matters and/or employment beyond the scope of biblical counseling. However, the counselor is not acting in that other capacity on behalf of the counselee. Further, it is agreed that no church or school or any third party will incur any liability for counsel provided by us, even if such an institution is providing supervision, generally or specifically, over this counseling and/or this ministry.
Although we may take into consideration any applicable laws that you may bring to our attention, it is intended that the Holy Scriptures (the Bible) shall be the supreme authority governing every aspect of the counseling process and that God’s glory is the goal. However, failure of the counselor to interpret or apply the Bible in any way shall not subject the counselor to liability.
There shall be no legal or other liability that attaches to any counselor or institution for any advice, methods, conduct or act, or omission related in any way to the service that is provided, and you acknowledge that you are voluntarily seeking this counsel (free from coercion, duress, or pressure.
LEGAL PROCEEDINGS
To prevent our counselors from being placed in situations that might compromise their biblical and ethical commitments, we, the people seeking biblical counseling, agree that we will not try to compel them to testify in any legal proceeding or otherwise divulge any confidential information they receive through pastoral counseling or ministry (Proverbs 11:13, 25:9).
COMMITMENT TO LIMITED CONFIDENTIALITY
A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret (Proverbs 11:13).
The Bible teaches that Christians should carefully guard any personal and private information that others reveal to them. Protecting confidence is a sign of Christian love and respect (Matthew 7:12). It also discourages harmful gossip (Proverbs 26:20), invites confession (Proverbs 11:13), and thus encourages people to seek needed counseling. Since these goals
are essential to the ministry of the gospel and the work of the local church, our counselors will carefully protect all information that they receive through pastoral counseling, subject to the following guidelines.
DUTY TO WARN
Although confidentiality is to be respected as much as possible, absolute confidentiality is not scriptural in all circumstances. In particular, when our leaders (as determined by us in our sole discretion) believe it is biblically necessary, they may disclose confidential information to appropriate people in the following circumstances:
1) When a counselor is uncertain of how to counsel a person about a particular problem and needs to seek advice from other counselors or leaders in our church or, if the person attends another church, from the leaders of that church (Proverbs 11:14);
2) When the person who disclosed the information, or any other person, is in imminent danger of serious harm unless others intervene (Proverbs 24:11-12). This includes suicidal intent with a plan or homicidal intentions with a plan.
3) When a person refuses to repent of sin, and it becomes necessary to promote repentance through accountability and redemptive church discipline (Matthew 18:15-20); or,
4) When counselors are required by law to report suspected abuse and criminal activity (Romans 13:1), including abuse of children and the elderly.
5) When we believe there is a need for protective services or that a person of familial authority needs to be informed (e.g., wife\husband, or child\parent).
Local Church Participation
Attendance\Training\Education: Please make every effort to attend every scheduled session. Further, please encourage your pastor from your local church or one of those in leadership to accompany you in counseling sessions. In fact, depending on the situation, we may require such attendance as we recognize and respect the authority and the discipline of the local church in your spiritual life. In addition, this makes transfer back to the pastoral care of your church much easier to implement. If you are not attending a church, we expect you to attend a Bible-preaching and believing church weekly for your own benefit and for the benefit of the Body of Christ.
Team Counseling
RGCC is a ministry devoted to teaching whereby we train others to counsel biblically (2 Timothy 2:2, Romans 15:14). We often utilize a team counseling concept that includes our advanced students or other counselors participating in sessions. If this happens, care will be taken to protect your identity.
Termination/Records
At any time and for any reason, the counselor (as well as the counselee) may terminate counseling. However, termination of counseling will not preclude the counselor from making disclosures set forth above (Limited Confidentiality) if deemed appropriate by the counselor or if compelled by other legal means. It is agreed that counseling sessions, in whole or in part, may be recorded by the counselor by writing, video, audio, or other nonelectronic or electronic means, and consent is hereby given by the counselee for such recordings. Although it is understood that we may (but are not required to) keep records of sessions and their subject matter, any records are the sole property of Reigning Grace Counseling Center and it is expressly agreed that we may destroy any and all such records of any counseling sessions or issues at any time we deem appropriate, without incurring any liability.”
REIGNING GRACE COUNSELING CENTER’S STATEMENT ON MARRIAGE, GENDER, AND SEXUALITY.
We are committed to the belief that marriage was created and sanctioned by God to bring together biological men and biological women by joining them in a “one-flesh” covenantal relationship (Genesis 2:18-25). We believe God wonderfully and immutably creates each person as male or female. These two distinct, complimentary genders together reflect the image and nature of God (Genesis 1:26-27). We believe the term, “marriage” has only one meaning: the uniting of one man and one woman in a single, exclusive union as delineated in Scripture (Genesis 2:18-25). We believe marriage between one man and one woman for life uniquely reflects Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:21-33). Marriage also serves as the foundational unit of the family (1 Timothy 3:2) and provides the best chance that children will grow up in the same home with both their mom and their dad.
We believe God intends sexual intimacy to occur only between a biological man and a biological woman who are married to each other (1 Corinthians 6:18; 7:2-5; Hebrews 13:4). We believe that God has commanded that no intimate sexual activity be engaged in outside of a marriage between a man and a woman.
We believe that any form of sexual immorality as described in the Bible (including fornication, adultery, homosexual behavior, bisexual conduct, bestiality, incest, and use of pornography) is sinful and offensive to God (Matthew 15:18-20; 1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
We believe that in order to preserve the function and integrity of Reigning Grace Counseling Center as part of the Body of Christ, and to provide a biblical role model to the Church and the community, all persons employed by Reigning Grace Counseling Center in any capacity, or who serve as volunteers, abide by this Statement on Marriage, Gender, and Sexuality (Matthew 5:16; Philippians 2:14-16; 1 Thessalonians 5:22).
We believe God offers redemption and restoration to all who confess and forsake their sin, seeking His mercy and forgiveness through Jesus Christ (Acts 3:19-21; Romans 10:9-10; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11).
We believe that every person must be afforded compassion, love, kindness, respect, and dignity (Mark 12:28-31). Hateful and harassing behavior or attitudes directed toward any individual are to be repudiated and are not in accord with Scripture or the doctrines of the Reigning Grace Counseling Center.
By signing this document, you are irrevocably waiving any right that you might have to a trial by jury or judge in a judicial proceeding. If any provision of this agreement shall be held invalid, illegal, or unenforceable, only that provision shall be stricken, and the remainder of the agreement shall in no way be affected. concerning matters relating to Reigning Grace Counseling Center. All of the above is understood and agreed.